“...you have to learn where your pain is. You have to burrow down and find the wound, and if the burden of it is too terrible to shoulder, you have to shout it out; you have to shout for help... And then finally, the way through grief is grieving.”

“I feel a flash of grief so intense it almost makes me cry out: not for what I lost, but for the chances I missed.”

"Grief shared is grief diminished."